At the IEP Meeting: Questions to Ask, and Answers to Expect
General Guidance for All IEP Meetings
Key Focus Areas
1. Academic Progress
- Goals aligned with the child’s unique needs.
- Access to resources for full academic participation.
- Monitoring frequency and quality of progress.
2. Social and Emotional Development
- Interaction opportunities with peers (hearing and Deaf as applicable).
- Support for self-advocacy and identity development in Deaf culture.
- Availability of counseling services tailored to Deaf students.
3. Engagement in the Learning Environment
- Classroom communication access (e.g., interpreters, captioning, ASL-proficient staff).
- Teacher awareness of Deaf culture and inclusion strategies.
- Integration of Deaf identity in learning activities.
Red Flags to Watch For
- Generic IEP goals that overlook Deaf-specific needs.
- Inadequate or absent communication support.
- Dismissive attitudes toward Deaf cultural considerations.
Scenarios and Targeted Questions
Deaf Schools
1. Academic Progress:
- “How do academic goals build upon the strengths of a bilingual ASL/English environment?”
- Look For: Goals leveraging visual learning and bilingual fluency.
- Red Flag: Generic curricula without Deaf pedagogical emphasis.
2. Social and Emotional Development:
- “How are students supported in building their Deaf identity?”
- Preferred Answer: Integration of Deaf culture, history, and mentorship by Deaf professionals.
- Red Flag: Lack of robust self-advocacy programming for Deaf students.
3. Engagement:
- “What leadership or extracurricular opportunities are provided?”
- Preferred Answer: Accessible extracurriculars, including Deaf youth club options.
- Red Flag: Emphasis on hearing-focused social structures with limited Deaf-specific options.
Deaf Programs in Mainstream Schools
1. Academic Progress:
- “How does this program ensure equal access for my child?”
- Look For: Integrated support like captioning, itinerant teachers, and specialized services.
- Red Flag: “One-size-fits-all” approaches ignoring personalized needs.
2. Social and Emotional Development:
- “How are inclusive peer interactions encouraged?”
- Preferred Answer: Peer-building activities with Deaf and hearing students working collaboratively.
- Red Flag: Social isolation or limiting interaction to adults.
3. Engagement:
- “What professional training do educators receive about Deaf culture and communication?”
- Preferred Answer: Ongoing training in cultural humility and accessible strategies.
- Red Flag: Absence of evidence for consistent staff training.
Fully Mainstream Public Schools
1. Academic Progress:
- “How will direct communication access be achieved during instruction?”
- Look For: Support mechanisms like interpreters and note-takers, or ASL instruction where appropriate.
- Red Flag: Reliance on classroom peers for communication needs.
2. Social and Emotional Development:
- “How will my child’s identity and sense of community be supported?”
- Preferred Answer: Role models and pathways to connect with Deaf culture.
- Red Flag: Neglect for fostering Deaf identity and no inclusion of role models.
3. Engagement:
- “How is classroom accessibility regularly reviewed for effectiveness?”
- Look For: Proactive assessments with child input.
- Red Flag: Reactive responses rather than preventative measures.
Closing Thoughts
Parents should:
- Insist on IEP goals tailored to meet Deaf-specific needs.
- Seek detailed, measurable progress updates.
- Encourage transparency and regular feedback.
By asking these questions, parents can ensure that their child receives the education and support necessary to thrive both academically and socially.

